How do you know when to forgive and when to just walk away? Currently having one of those moments where I am at a cross roads. He who shall not be named… he who destroyed my heart… he who lied with a straight face… he wants forgiveness… he “wants his wife back”. Do I forgive? Can people change? It’s what we have all been told “everyone can change”… well, can they? I am the worse person when it comes to forgiveness. I hold a grudge like it is nobody’s business. Now I am not asking whether I should forgive and forget. No, I know I will never forget how bad it hurt. I can never forget about all of the lies. That will stay with me. All I am trying to figure out is do I grant that wish?